
Meet
Dr.Alette
Certified Grief Recovery Method Specialist®,
Author, Speaker, Widow
and
Founder of
UNshaken. UNalone.

Welcome! I'm Dr. Alette Stevens
I’m glad you are here.
My story is one of discovering strength through pain and joy after heartache, and my passion is helping women find their own resilience pathways.
Life’s challenges have been my greatest teachers. My husband's passing was profoundly devastating, and it left me grappling with disorientation and a sense of isolation. Before that, I went through two painful divorces that stirred up feelings of betrayal. Not to mention, after dedicating over two decades to my career in education, I found myself forced to let it go due to factors beyond my control. But even those struggles didn’t match the impact of my earliest experience with loss—the divorce of my parents. That event, though long ago, influenced my self-image and shaped a narrative of people-pleasing and perfectionism that I battled for years.
Through these experiences, coupled with my ever-growing faith, I’ve learned that resilience isn’t about being unbreakable; it’s about becoming whole again after you’ve been broken. Each experience allowed me to see beyond “what could have been” and “what should have been,” empowering me to embrace what is and build toward what can be.
I enjoy helping women like you rise above the pains life has dealt with the strength and grace to not only dream forward with hope, but also plan and move forward with courage.
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Welcome. I am holding space for you.

I invite you to join me on a journey where pain is transformed into purpose and resilience becomes a guiding force. Whether it’s through Grief Recovery Method® Support, in UNshaken. UNalone., or during speaking engagements, I’m here to support you in rediscovering your power, reclaiming joy, and reinforcing your foundation so you can shine in the world.
Credentials
Member, International Coaching Federation
Certified Grief Recovery Specialist®, GRI
Certified Grief Coach, IOPGC
Certified Life Coach, CTACC

